It's easy to talk about the BDSM aspects of my relationship with serafina, it's harder to talk about the spiritual side of things. I don't suppose that's going to change overnight, but it is a goal for this blog to have a greater focus on that aspect of our BDSM practice.
To my mind, it's easier to see the spiritual side of service, the dominant aspect is perhaps a bit harder and more obscure to embrace. That's something I occasionally struggle with as a dominant. I feel a little bit like the old bluesmen, who were sure that their passion would land them in hell. I guess there's some consolation there, in that at least I'd find good company there!