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TMI Tuesday What are your 50 shades?

TMI Tuesday 7/17/2012

DARING: What are your 50 shades?

Today's TMI Tuesday is brought to you by the darling Serafina, - Servant of Michael, goddess incarnate, and First Lady of the House of Samadhi . . . 

1. I enjoy the idea that my partner wants to inflict pain on me that:
a. makes me curious
b. is titillating and sexually arousing
c. that leaves me screaming and/or crying because that’s the way I like it

Serafina's answer - no doubt about it B.  No doubt what feels good can change as well.  And it depends on a variety of things within the moment.  If I am in a dark mood, pain is absolutely not wanted, instead I need comforting and understanding. 

2. Do you like being forced to dress or act in a way that is humiliating? If yes, please describe. If no, why not?

Serafina's answer - I resist humiliation because I lived that way for many years.  My upbringing was extremely strict and I was shy, and we wore clothes that were different from my school-mates and were not allowed to participate in sports, dances or social events.  We moved a lot and I only had friends when I was attending a school where many kids came from a similar background for a 2 year period.  It is difficult to form friendships when you are always the "new" kid

However, having said thus I realize that when it is a challenge that I find intriguing, I would embrace the event.  And I am aware that what I call a challenge might very well be labeled as humiliation for others.  I would also have to be in the right space to participate or Master would find me digging in; which on occasion I do that.

3. Do you like seeing bruises, scars, or marks that were caused during sex on either you or your partner? What kind of marks?

Serafina's answer - oh very short answer.  No.

4. Would you like to be forced to do sexual things that you don’t necessarily like to do? Yes or No.

Serafina's answer - All depends on what it is. . I do have limits

5. Do you want to be forced to watch your lover with someone else? Yes, No or It depends.

Serafina's answer - While I would have no problem watching while Master flogs another or similar - watching Master making love to and fucking another would pretty much end it for me.  I was formerly introduced to Master by his now ex-wife, her first statement to me was "he is much more of a sexual man than (she) could handle".  She actually enjoyed watching Master take me and it got her off.  I was not reluctant in that setting.

I can guarantee. . .Master is not too much for me. . I want him always

6. What dirty (sometimes inappropriate) things do you like to say to your sexual partner?

Serafina's answer -  I honor and respect Master I would not consider anything inappropriate.  Being quite shy I even find it difficult to talk dirty. . .I am open to tips and ideas if anyone is willing to offer them.

Bonus: Finish this statement: I like being powerful in bed because __________ .

Serafina's answer - I am submissive.  My submission is my power.

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Happy TMI Tuesday!


  1. 3. I don't like scars and marks either

    5. Interesting how you met your Master.

    6. I used to be shy about talking dirty but with confidence, age, and sexual confidence I've learned to not restrain myself and enjoy the moment. My motto: Say what you feel, get what you need.

    Thanks for playing TMI Tuesday.


    P.S. Sorry your post got stuck in spam at TMI Tuesday blog, it only appeared today/yesterday.


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