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TMI Tuesday for 5-29-2012
Which superhero puts a bee in your bonnet?
1. If your lover was turned on by forced feminization would you participate (giving or receiving)?
I'd not be a good candidate myself for feminization, it would be pretty laughable IMHO.  I am what I am, and that's not feminine, I don't think there's a force in the world going to change that . . .  With that said, if Serafina wished to practice forced  feminization upon another male, I'd gladly be a willing collaborator, as I think it would be exciting as a dominant to take control of another individual to the point of enforcing a gender identity.

2. When you have sexual dreams or fantasies that are aggressive or cruel, does it worry you?
When I was young it worried me a lot.  It was always easier for me to write stories from the perspective of submission, as it would seem to be the more compelling and relate-able role for a main character, and I think at least in part, that was due to guilt I felt about being a dominant and a sexual sadist.  But, now that I'm in my 40's, I've embraced my own nature, So I am blissfully without worries of that sort . . .

3. Tell us your hottest filthiest fantasy, right now, in 100 words or less. 
This is the fantasy about your desires that you probably never share, maybe they even go against your morals, or are societal taboos.
It might be said that I'm truly living THE DREAM, as my hottest fantasy is to have my wife as my sex slave, only that's my reality today too, so it's a rather unsatisfying answer, I know.
If you want to know my most extreme and perverted fantasy, it would be a non-consensual abduction involving my daughter-in-law, a soundproof cabin deep in the wilderness, and long term enforced slavery upon said unwilling female captive.  The fantasy was probably inspired by a 1970's book by Irving Wallace called "The Fan Club", but it's also rooted in personal animosity with the subject.  This isn't my original answer because it's far more nasty than hot, and seems to be more about aggression and revenge than it would be about lust.  There is a backstory --- Not long after my slave/wife and I met, Serafina's own daughter assaulted Serafina, a violent attack that ended with her breaking one finger so badly Serafina's hand had to be put back together with pins by a plastic surgeon.  To this day the daughter refuses to even acknowledge the assault, let alone apologize for it,.  The daughter has caused her Mother great physical and emotional pain. she's a cold and haughty lady, but she has her Mother's good looks, and could easily have modeled for a living had she lived life with ambition to be anything more than a petty thug.  What else you going to do with that kind of girl but teach her a lesson she'd never forget?  At least that's how the fantasy would go . . .

Obviously, those kinds of fantasy go against how I practice BDSM, not to mention most every moral fiber in my being, not to mention civil law and every human taboo I can imagine.  Guess that's what I get for reading filthy fiction like The Fan Club as an impressionable young teen! ;)  Now, I can give you another pretty nasty one which I can imagine subjecting upon my ex wife, but you only asked for 1!!!

4. Which super hero would you like to have sex with? Why?
a. Aquaman
b. Superman
c. Wonder Woman
d. She-Ra
Wonder Woman carries a magic rope, so I'd go all Shibari on her sweet superhero ass.

5. Knowing there’s a hot young couple in the adjoining hotel room, would you press your ear against the wall to hear the action on the other side?
Hell yes!

6. Do you think the lure to live out sexual fantasies or have sex frequently is amplified by technology? Briefly explain.
Absolutely.  The WWWeb has brought so many fetish items and ideas to my life.  Without computer technology, I never would have found my dungeon bed!

Bonus: Describe your fantasy life in three (3) words.
Livin' the dream!


  1. Wow. Your answer to #3 was the most candid, honest thing we've read in quite some time. Thanks for sharing something so deep and personal.


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