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Mirrors on the ceiling & pink champagne on ice... - TMI Tuesday 4-24-2012




1. What is your sexual personality?
a. The Controller – initiating sex, twisting your lover into positions you want, and driving scene play by play
b. Sex Slave – You love to be used and at the mercy of your lover. You don’t initiate but follow and do as you are told. You love to be used.
c. Daredevil – Sexual adventure and sexual thrills are what you are all about. You get off on the risk factor.
d. Subdued – Sex is a necessary part of the relationship so you are available when needed.

Quite obviously, I am - a. The Controller - No surprises there . . . 

2. How many times have you sneaked away from party guests to have sex in another part of the party venue. Where did you sneak to? Were you ever caught? For example, at a wedding reception you sneaked to have sex in the coat room. At a party, you sneaked to have sex in a bathroom or closet.

When I was 16 my first real girlfriend and I slipped away from a Luther League meeting and managed to slide into the darkened chapel for a sexual liaison which included a long make out session, some heavy petting, and a blow-job.  In all honesty, just about every single time I had sex at age 16 involved some kind of sneaking off from a group.    I've also told the story of a quick liaison with my 1st wife, at age 18, in my 1st apartment, with a guest just a room away, in a previous post about handgags.

3. Your sex partner that you are mad crazy for has requested you do one of the following, which one would you grant consent to do:
a. Bondage/light restraint with your hands, legs tied while having sex
b. A sexual spanking that leaves light marks
c. Record the two of you having sex
d. Have sex in a mirrored room where you can see yourselves having sex from every angle

This one's really simple - the answer is - e. All of the above - We do bondage and spanking all the time, and there is a mirror above our bed, so the only thing on this list that isn't a regular part of our normal activities is C

4. Do you act out your sexual fantasies (select one)? Why?
a. I act out all of my fantasies.
b. I act out many of my fantasies.
c. I act out some of my fantasies.
d. I act out very few of my fantasies.
e. I don’t act out any of my fantasies.
f. I don’t have any fantasies.

While I do act out most sexual fantasies, some fantasies fall into the realm of unrealistic or impractical actions, so for me the best answer is - b. I act out many of my fantasies.

5. How important is sex in your life (select one)?
a. I could hardly survive without it.
b. It is very important.
c. It is somewhat important.
d. I could live without it.
e. If it were up to me, sex wouldn’t even exist!

Serafina and I are very sexual creatures, but sex isn't the only thing that defines our relationship, so the best answer is - b. It is very important.

Bonus: Finish the following phrase.
Sex is ______________ .

Sex is a spiritual experience.

Comments

  1. Great answers! Loved the story in #2, and the link as well.

    We'll never be able to realize all of our fantasies. Some are dangerous, illegal to the point of not being worth the risk, or otherwise simply impractical. Many of our fantasies involve specific individuals who would likely not be interested, or otherwise sexually inaccessible to us.

    Nice accompanying image!

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