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photo by Serafina Samadhi (property of Michael Samadhi)
While I'm Serafina's Master - a role where at times I may use very strong sensation to make her whimper or moan, to make her weak in the knees and wet between the legs, and ultimately to enhance her orgasms - I'm not unapproachable, in fact I'd like to think that I'm open to answering most any question related to BDSM and sexuality.

When it comes to BDSM related topics, I consider myself to be a "generalist", what my father's generation used to call a "jack of all trades".  I'm blessed to be an experienced dominant who's also earned a living as a writer, I can usually communicate my passion for a topic, and I can also write in an educational style.

I don't have any one particular fetish, instead I have a very strong interest, a passion, some might say an obsession, with all things D/s, bondage and discipline, and SM.  BDSM is my fetish.

I don't want to present myself as the ultimate expert in any one aspect of kinky sexuality, I'm not.  But, I've been living, learning, and studying the lifestyle since the late 1980's.  No insult intended to today's young dominants, as the range of experiences and information available today is unprecedented in the BDSM community's history, but there are times where there's no substitute for experience.

Which leads to my offer . . .

My offer to you, dear reader, is that I'll gladly answer respectful questions about the BDSM lifestyle, as well as my relationship with Serafina, in public posts here at our SpiritualBDSM.com blog.  I can only give my own perspective, and I'll not ever claim that my response is definitive.  I do not claim to speak for the BDSM community, as I don't believe the BDSM community needs or wants a "spokesperson", nor do I wish to self appoint myself to such a task.

But I'll give my honest perspective, I can speak as an individual who is currently living a very successful 24/7 lifestyle relationship.

Just drop a note to - master at spiritualbdsm.com - (just drop in an @ to replace the word "at" and spaces around it).  I plan to leave the source of the questions anonymous, unless otherwise requested in the email.

If you'd like to have a question answered by Serafina, use the same email address, but put "Question for Serafina" in the subject and body of your note.

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