No Assembly Required - Hand Gags
- Keeping Her Quiet (pt. 1) - Duct Tape Gags
- Keeping Her Quiet (pt. 2) - Introduction to Gags
- Keeping Her Quiet (pt. 3) - Variations on a Gag
- Keeping Her Quiet (pt. 4) - Wiffle Gag
- Keeping Her Quiet (pt. 5) - Serafina's Assignment
- Keeping Her Quiet (pt. 6) - Hand Gag
- Keeping Her Quiet (pt. 7) - Drooling!
- Keeping Her Quiet (pt 8) - Gag Maker Extraordinaire
The title of the series, and the tone of my posts reflect my personal experience, but the subject matter and techniques discussed are almost always universal in nature and not dependent on a particular sexual orientation. Please feel free to apply your own sexual preference and orientation as needed . . .
Thanks for reading, I sincerely hope you enjoy the article.
I know a cat named Way-Out Willie,
Got a cool little chick named Rocking Millie.
He can walk and stroll and Susie Q
And do that crazy hand gag, too.
Hand gag, hand gag, do that crazy hand gag . . .
~~ my apologies to Johnny Otis, Eric Clapton, the Grateful Dead, George Thorogood, and musicians everywhere who have performed the original "Willie and the Hand Jive", the song who's lyrics I've taken liberties with today . . .
Hand Gags & BDSM
Today we're talking today about the classic hand gag, detailing it's use in BDSM scenes and play. You've seen this gag at the motion pictures, it's a classic in detective, horror, suspense, and thriller style movies.
It should be said that the hand gag is not quite as effective in real life as it appears to be in the movies. There are actually few things as effective as the movies might portray when it comes to totally silencing a struggling lady, especially one who's truly intent on making noise.
With that minor limitation in mind, I do believe the hand gag is an absolute classic. And, it does offer some unique advantages all it's own.
The first time I used a hand gag during sex, I wasn't even overtly aware of it's BDSM overtones. It was during my first marriage, I was 18 years old, and I was just discovering the joys of being a newlywed.
My wife, Charlie, and I were entertaining a friend of mine. She and I stepped into the kitchen together to make some mixed drinks. Suddenly we were struck, as newlyweds often are, with the overpowering urge to screw, right then and there, on the kitchen floor.
Charlie was always pretty freely vocal in expressing her lust for lovemaking. But, as she started with her usual coos and moans, my friend's close proximity was forgotten.
Instinctively I clamped my hand down over Charlie's mouth to quiet her sounds of passion. When she reached for me, I thought it was to push my arm away. To my surprise, she instead pulled my hand down more strongly.
The tighter Charlie pressed my hand over her mouth, the tighter her internal embrace became. Within moments, she was squirming and shaking in orgasm underneath me. As I pushed my hand down tighter still, seeing her face turn a little red, as I was now temporary blocking her breath, I came too.
My orgasm was overpowering. I came with extreme urgency and surprising passion for a guy who was getting a little raw from frequent sex. I didn't even realize it at the time, but I'd just had my first intimate experience with a hand gag.
Let me tell you, it was good! There's something especially powerful that is stirred in me when I clamp my hand over a woman's mouth to act as a gag. This isn't a gag that you'll need to hunt for or dig out of the toybag. Like I said in the name for this piece, no assembly required.
When I clamp a hand gag over Serafina's mouth, I can feel her lips, I can feel her breath. And, in return, she can feel the strength of my hand, and the heat of my palm, as I clamp it ever so tightly over her mouth.
As I stated at the start of this post, the actual usefulness of this gag will never match what the movies might lead you to believe. The effectiveness of this gag does vary quite a bit depending on the amount of pressure applied, as well as the relative size of the dominant's hand compared to the submissive's face and mouth.