Most, but certainly not all, sex bloggers who do reviews on their site enter into some kind of affiliation with a company producing or marketing adult toys. Some enter into a number of such relationships with various toy makers and vendors. If we enter into any affiliate relationship with a company, it will be disclosed here in the body of the blog.
When we do informational reviews for products or vendors, we will clearly state at the end of the review whether we have any affiliation, or would receive any compensation /consideration in return for the review. If we receive any free products to test, we will clearly state in a disclaimer at the end of the post that we received the item for review and did not purchase it for ourselves.
We haven't yet entered into any affiliate relationships ourselves, and we are currently debating if that direction is a good fit for us here at SpiritualBDSM.com.
You see, just as musicians have influences upon which they build their own style, writers also have influences and authors who have inspired or instructed. While I can't say that my personal writing style was influenced by a sex blogger, or any other online source, the actual decision to become sex bloggers ourselves was inspired by a good number of today's blogs, as well as a couple I've followed but are no longer active.
I've written professionally, I earned my living with my communications skills for the last 25 years. As such it wouldn't be unreasonable for Serafina and I to seek affiliates and advertisers to garner some token compensation for our efforts here. One example of a non fetish blog that I believe does this well is KenRockwell.com. Ken's a professional photographer who supports himself with his website, not by having a pay site, but with a few select affiliations and with reader's donations.
On the other hand, about 5 years ago Serafina and I had a non-fetish related blog (that drew 1000 to 1500 unique visits per day) and we never once accepted any advertisement nor a single affiliation arrangement. For legal reasons I let the domain and site expire while going thru a divorce - on principle I killed my effort rather than let it be taken over and monetized by my former spouse.
So, we are in progress of making decisions regarding affiliation with companies serving the adult toy and BDSM toy markets. If we do choose to become affiliates of any vendor or manufacturer, we will announce it here among the blog's posts, not hidden away on some page that is rarely noticed.
It is all based on our belief that readers have the right to know!